If you don't know something about me, why not ask? People ask me questions all the time. Whether or not they like my answers is second to the fact that I do make the time to answer them.
I'm not all piss and vinegar, but if you go into this expecting me to be the bad guy, then that's all you're going to find. Your mind will filter everything I say through a specific lens to make me look like a whirlwind of douchebaggery. Really, any statement can be interpreted as rude and hostile if you imagine it spoken in the right tone. Try it on these two paragraphs. Imagine two different ways of saying them, one peaceful and the other antagonistic.
I'm not all piss and vinegar, but if you go into this expecting me to be the bad guy, then that's all you're going to find. Your mind will filter everything I say through a specific lens to make me look like a whirlwind of douchebaggery. Really, any statement can be interpreted as rude and hostile if you imagine it spoken in the right tone. Try it on these two paragraphs. Imagine two different ways of saying them, one peaceful and the other antagonistic.