To put it in perspective:
Laymen/our wonderful Audience see the performance, they feel the interaction we have with them, they are personally affected by the effect - whether that's a simple color change, or a complex, multi-phased routine that takes their understanding of reality and breaks it in two. They only know that things were, and now there are not. Or vis versa, things were not, and now they are.
However, magicians/performers see things from a more technical aspect- we notice and consciously think about each and every "move" that is done - whether or not you have practiced your handling of a certain effect into an almost "second nature". You and I, and every other performer will only look for, notice, praise, and critique the mechanical workings of an effect.
Take this, for instance: A magician had posted a video of himself performing for an audience, not too long ago. I read through the comments, mostly from magicians. There were comments like "good job on your pass", "nice thumb palm", "wow, really good handling of that trick", "amazing steal", "nice card fold", "i liked your presentation but that false count was ****ing wicked!".
Yes, those are the normal comments we ("we" defining the online community of magicians) receive. However, one comment kinda looked funny amongst the masses:
"wow, idk what these guys are talking about but dude this was freaking awesome. thanks for the show, you rock!
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I proceeded to click on the username above that comment, and came to find that it was just a normal person. Not a magician. It made me rethink the way I analyze my tricks- I don't care if I'm using the latest and greatest sleight, or the most complex way of doing things. We, as performers, need to change the way we look at our tricks, effects, performances, interaction, and ourselves. Instead of focusing on the trick, or on the effect, focus on the audience.
Food for thought.