Hey Fan Boys: A lesson in what NOT to do.

I'm not sure if I'm in the clear to post this here or not. If Katie or Chris have any issues then please let me know and I'll edit this sucker out faster than Criss Angel goes through eye liner.

I followed a link posted in another thread to Chris Kenner's personal blog that he's updating while out on tour. What I read appalled me. But there is a lesson to be learned here.

Kids, just because you're a magician doesn't mean the world or others in the performance arts owes you anything. When I read this it kind of upset me at how egotistical this mark was to think that he was owed a M&G with Copperfield.

The original link is here: http://thekenners.wordpress.com/200...magician-david-does-not-owe-you-a-meet-greet/
 
True story:

David Copperfield toured through Philadelphia a few years ago while I was attending college there. When I initially found out the news, I was excited and determined to meet the individual who ignited my interest in magic as a child. Now, FYI... when I get determined, I typically walk on the line between ballsy and foolish. In this particular instance, it all paid off.

I purchased a few (cheap) seats to see the show with some friends and family. I rushed everyone to get ready and out the door; after dealing with the shotty public transportation of Philadephia, we managed to arrive at the theater about 20 minutes prior to showtime. They just started accepting tickets seating everyone. Well, while my group looked for their seats, I drifted from the crowd and approached the front row.

I was greeted by a stocky gentleman dressed in black and he asked if I needed any help. I assumed he was security; he had a loud hand-held radio in his hand which he needed to turn down in order to concentrate on our interaction. I gave him some charming story about how I had a friend on Copperfield's crew that I haven't spoken to in years and wanted to see. I said she invited me to come hang out early. He spoke into his radio to confirm the story and he asked me who my friend was. Ha. I pulled a name out of thin air, looked him in the eye, and lied to his face. Straight-up bold faced lie. I don't even remember what name I gave him. But he spoke into his radio, looked at me, and pointed me in the right direction to get backstage.

By then, I was nervous as hell-- I was backstage peering around without any sort of official VIP access badge or anything. I ran into a few people and asked where the rest of the crew was-- trying to sound like I randomly fit in somewhere. After a few minutes, I finally stumbled across David hanging out with a some of the stagecrew. He stopped in mid-conversation, looked over at me, and hesitantly asked, "Can we help you?"

"Absolutely, an autograph would be awesome."

He looked puzzled, glanced at those he was with, and then looked back at me. Awkward pause. Then laughter. I smiled and walked closer and introduced myself, explaining how I was just a college student and a fan. I obviously didn't belong where I was, but he didn't seem to mind. We actually spoke briefly for a few minutes. He admittedly looked like he was in a hurry as the show was about to start, but he made sure one of his guys brought out a small notepad to scribble down his autograph for me. Then he had me escorted back to the souvenir booth in the lobby where I was able to get a free copy of his performance DVD, Illusion.

I finally met up with my friends and family in the nosebleeds as the lights dimmed. They had no idea where I was; I showed them my gifts from the man, himself. Their jaws dropped more than they ever have for any magic trick I performed for them. It was obviously one of the best nights and memorable experiences of my entire life in magic. It was such a good time and to this day-- I'm extremely grateful for David's generosity. Total hero.

RS.
 
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RS: Balls man. And props. It would have been within security's every right to have you thrown out of that theater for that stunt and I would have probably sided with them. However I've got to say, I respect the creativity and determenation.
 
Dec 23, 2007
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i totally agree, i was kinda suprized reading that. [the blog, not ur post]


-Nikki

you agree the world spins around him?


anyways that blog link was posted by katie on another thread. Im going to see copperfield later this month, i messaged chris about it on facebook and possible meeting him (chris not david) but it was a polite request not a demand. I think its all about being polite, understanding and realizing its a privelege to meet these people, not a right. Anyways, even if i dont get a chance to meet Chris or Homer, its still gonna be a great show and im very excited. Haha, however if i do get a chance im gonna see if i can convince them to go out to Dinosaur BBQ Grill. Best ribs and wings in the city.
 
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Eh, it's not just Magicians who can get like this. There are people out there who will act the same way when it comes to their favorite actor/writer/musician/athlete/pornstar/etc. It's just a general thing with anybody. Once you get some level of fame, you'll get those people who sometimes think that you OWE them something.
 
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These people think the world revolves around them. Chris if I was you I would slap that guy for being disrespectful. Come on guys these people are always busy, if they have so time to spare they will talk to you......... if you are lucky:p
 
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I think meeting CK would be enough, I wouldn't even think to ask meeting David.

Magicians make me laugh. "I'm a member of the magic castle".
Uhh, Want a medal?

I don't know how to become a member of the magic castle, but I honestly don't care about some "club" that won't let those who want to join in. It reminds me of kids in a tree house.
 

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In my own defense (not that I was rude like these other guys) for the Cleveland show, I had asked politely in Kenner's PM box if it was even possible to get the chance to meet David. Chris came out and met me at the front of the stage and we chatted for a few minutes and I asked if David did "meet and greets" and he said that it was always just kind of up in the air and depended on what David had going on after the show. I hung around but didn't get the chance. Sure I was bummed but in no way would I have been disrespectful towards any of the crew, Chris or David. That would just make yourself look silly and arrogant.

I'm sure it does get old that at every show Chris has magicians asking for the privilege to meet David. I guess it will probably get to the point where it might be better to not do the meet and greets.

Wow..I didn't know the situation was getting out of hand. If I knew it was like this every show and Chris was getting upset...I would have never asked.
 
I got to meet him, but I was invited to do so. And I am very grateful, thank you Matt Tarrant and Chris Kenner. But I was very excited about it and I wasnet that fussed if it didnt work out. I would be annoyed but not chase after him and beg for a hello.

J.
 

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It's this generations sense of entitlement. Cardistry and magic has really become popular with the likes of Blaine and dare I say, Cris Angel. Now that the Buck twins and this type of style has become popular I have met about 4 cardist that are all about the flash and technically they are really good but they have zero personality and a smarmy attitude of the "I just fooled you" kind. They are tricksters bent on making the spec look foolish rather than presenting it as entertainment. So a story like this does not surprise me a bit. I think this comes from learning from DVD's in this day and age rather than seeking out a mentor which is how you had to learn in the "old" days. The "old guys" really know how to entertain a crowd!

I saw Copperfield in Philadelphia once in the 80's. The bastard hit on my girl!!! :)
 
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