There is a joke within the ranks of Magic and even more so within Mentalism about having earned the honor of being booted from the Cafe because we taught something the powers that be don't agree with. . . some might even say they supported a democrat instead of a republican (not not kidding).
The cafe is everything William explained to you and more. When it first got started the whole ordeal centered on "poor Steve Brook" and how ill he was and how he needed our help. . . seems that angle hasn't just faded from everyone's mind, it was buried. Also ignored are Mr. Brooks known associations with and protection of numerous bootleggers and thieves of magic, one of whom Rick Maue and I caught red handed and yet today, he's a moderator over there. But then, the original push to get members over there involved hacking the membership lists of other forums, at least one of which I was a moderator of, but the two key sites hit were the long standing "original" on-line communities with huge followings. This in and of its own should tell you a lot about the mind-set of the founders and where their "morals & ethics" actually lay.
In my experience there are two solid forms for those getting started and that would be Ellusionist and Theory 11. . . and you can ask around, there was a very long time when I stated the exact opposite, but these two groups have grown-up significantly and tend to be inhabited by working pros and serious hobbyists that generally know what they are talking about.
The Cafe is where big names and wanna bes go to promote their stuff; eBooks, "new" Effects, etc. and little other. It is filled with people who believe they are someone special, simply because they are well known on that forum. . . but ONLY that forum!
I'll admit, the place has an amazing archive filled with fantastic information, but so does hell and frankly, I don't like making deals with the devil.