I'm 28, and I've been into magic for two and half years (huge breaks, I began 10 years ago).
The thing that got me into magic was a friend who performed for me a basic trick with an Emsley count (Do as I do...). He was shaking like crazy, but I had no clue of how he did that thing. At first I just wanted to know how he did it. Then I developed an interest for performing.
I think people have a lot of misconceptions about magic and I do really believe it is our role to be good enough performers so we can change that.
I think that it is due to several factors :
- Magic isn't a direct art form : If you play guitar, you get a direct result and people can judge your skills in the very minute you started playing. If you see a painting, you immediately like it or dislike it (unless it is highly conceptual...).
But magic is about tricking the mind. It is a mixture of misdirection, technique, showmanship and psychology. Thus, people cannot really know what your magic is about unless they take the time to experience it.
- Magic generally has a bad reputation. People most often don't take it seriously until they see what it is really about.
Someone told me once : "So you're doing magic ? Oh well..." I knew then that the image she had in mind was that of a magic wand, a rabbit, and a deck of playing cards. I explained her that magic was basically a blend of science and psychology, but she was still thinking "Yeah, yeah, whatever".
I took a piece of paper and made her write down the name of a relative she was close to and I performed a lengthy cold reading on her, revealing things on her and her friend, their relationship and so on. It wasn't so hard as I knew her pretty well already, but it gave the impression that I knew tons of very personal things about her life.
It was basic and impromptu mentalism, but when I finished, she told me "How did you do that ?" with pure astonishment. I just answered : "I'm doing magic, I told you."
When someone make you doubt about the seriousness of magic, just try to remember that you are learning a whole lot more than tricks. You are improving your people skills, you are developing a sense of psychology, misdirection and entertainment. And you can almost be sure that this someone just doesn't realize that.