Whoa, I know the forums are free game but, I would avoid posting anything remotely personal that isn't related to magic or Cardistry. I know you guys are being honest and speaking truth but, some of it cuts like a blade. Hahahah
Look, at the end of the day the girl is either going to like you or not. I would tell you to be yourself be it's obvious you wanna try something else. Best of luck with whatever it is you try or go with.
Just don't be one dimensional.