ENTERS THE OLD CURMUDGEON. . .
I'm going to be nit-picky for a second and I beg you to not over-personalize what I'm about to say, you're far from being alone on this particular raft; but given how poor your spelling and grammar is in the original post I'd have to say that you might be cutting similar corners when it comes to your magic. If you have bad study habits and general discipline when it comes to "life" it will be reflected in your work, regardless of what that work may be. So as the Buddhist might suggest, maybe you need to look in the mirror and see your part in what creates these conflicts and in so doing, willingly choose to see what you need to understand and accept in order to change things -- to heal the condition as it were.
We all have type-O situations but most of us also have spell & grammar checks that tell us when we've used the wrong word or wrong version of a word and of course, misspelling, so there is no real excuse on the writing front. On the speaking front however, there are no checks other than your own desire to be "good" if not "better" in expressing yourself and being a clear communicator. When your instructions are 100% clear to everyone watching and some jerk/jock decides to screw with you, it's he that ends up looking bad, not you. Similarly, when you present yourself with a strong sense of presence and command, you can't help but generate positive reactions from those hearing your voice.
When I first started working in this business I had coaches teaching me how to properly speak the script and how to project my voice in a manner that showed command, confidence and strength. Even 25 years after those early days I have directors as well as experienced friends from the biz who will "suggest" specific wordage changes and pronouncement corrections in that such things really can make all the difference in the world when it comes to how people see you and what you deliver. So take some pride when it comes to this side of things and I'll lay money on it that others will start seeing you and what you do in a completely different way, giving you far less hassle and maybe even a bit of encouragement. I know such things allowed guys like myself, Kevin James and Franz Harrary to create special "stunts" for the High School Home Coming Half-Time shows. . . producing the cheer leading team or even the players. . . all sorts of things.
Better yourself and in so doing, your skills and I can assure you a more positive sense of reception from your peers.