The one thing I get complemented on more than anything else it seems is my confidence on stage and my ability to control my audience. Well I can say one thing, this isn’t just a gift I unwrapped one Christmas morning and then was able to use it ever since. It’s a talent that any performer can hone with enough experience and practice. That is, the controlling your audience and even to a degree your environment. I’m afraid the confidence thing is something that you either have or don’t. The good news is that you can build on your confidence by consistently seeking to achieve desired results. At first, the results may be as simple as making someone laugh at a scripted joke, but in time it may expand to obtaining a standing ovation at the end of your act. Each little success you encounter is a lesson learned, and a step forward in building more confidence in yourself as an entertainer.
When you are on stage, take a minute before you make your entrance and really study and take in everything around you. Look at the people in the audience, note what they are wearing, look at the stage, the props, how things are set out, observe EVERYTHING. When you are on set, you become the master of your environment. You’re the reason why people are there, you’re the show! If the mic breaks, play off it! If someone trips coming up onto stage with you, use that moment to connect with the spectator and your audience. Literally everything is a chance to interact and help make the scene perfect. Actors call this “method acting”, I call it entertainment. When I’ve been on stage before I’ve stolen hats, watches, wallets, picked my nose at people, among a list of other things I’d rather not go on record to admitting, all for the sake of entertainment! You want to know something? Each time, my audience left with a little something special that they can take with them and tell their friends back home about. You just have to open up your mind and use your imagination, make safe judgment calls (lets face it, not all funny ideas are good ones), and of course have fun! If you’re not having fun then chances are your audience won’t either.
One thing you do want to be aware of when performing is your body language and tone of voice. Body language makes up for 93% of human communication leaving only 7% for verbally spoken words. Body language can also be used to “read” someone and can be very useful in cold reading. The technique of 'reading' people is used frequently. For example, the idea of mirroring body language to put people at ease is commonly used in interviews. Mirroring the body language of someone else indicates that they are understood. When dealing with children, it’s best to kneel down to their level, instead of talking down to them. This helps them feel more important, and like they are a part of the conversation as opposed to just observing it.
(To Be Continued)
When you are on stage, take a minute before you make your entrance and really study and take in everything around you. Look at the people in the audience, note what they are wearing, look at the stage, the props, how things are set out, observe EVERYTHING. When you are on set, you become the master of your environment. You’re the reason why people are there, you’re the show! If the mic breaks, play off it! If someone trips coming up onto stage with you, use that moment to connect with the spectator and your audience. Literally everything is a chance to interact and help make the scene perfect. Actors call this “method acting”, I call it entertainment. When I’ve been on stage before I’ve stolen hats, watches, wallets, picked my nose at people, among a list of other things I’d rather not go on record to admitting, all for the sake of entertainment! You want to know something? Each time, my audience left with a little something special that they can take with them and tell their friends back home about. You just have to open up your mind and use your imagination, make safe judgment calls (lets face it, not all funny ideas are good ones), and of course have fun! If you’re not having fun then chances are your audience won’t either.
One thing you do want to be aware of when performing is your body language and tone of voice. Body language makes up for 93% of human communication leaving only 7% for verbally spoken words. Body language can also be used to “read” someone and can be very useful in cold reading. The technique of 'reading' people is used frequently. For example, the idea of mirroring body language to put people at ease is commonly used in interviews. Mirroring the body language of someone else indicates that they are understood. When dealing with children, it’s best to kneel down to their level, instead of talking down to them. This helps them feel more important, and like they are a part of the conversation as opposed to just observing it.
(To Be Continued)