Hello, I just had a thought , and rather than letting it go past like other thoughts that go through my mind thought I would broach. I tend to go to extremes on things most of the time. Such as with my Up The Ladder ahem. With that being said when should you ask for a helping hand?...I am sure there are many people like myself that put a ton of effort into what they do and don't yield a great amount of results ..... Then there are people that ask for a tremendous amount of help and yet put in little to no effort on there part, yielding the same results. What do you think is the happy medium?