I didn't want to tell anybody about this, but because it was cancelled due to the inability for me to meet the correct people, I couldn't do it. I was actually going to film a documentary on this exact topic. Had the whole thing planned. Still disappointed I couldn't do it. Wanted to know if I would be proven correct or incorrect Oh well. Someday...
Anyway, I believe laymen see us as complete failures at life. Sad, but true. I think magicians are seen as people that didn't do well in school so now they are stuck doing magic tricks. Think about it. Pretend to be a layman for a second, and you're in a restaurant. The magician comes to the table and entertains you for a few minutes, and then leaves to proceed to his next table. The first few minutes would be talk about how amazed you all were.Then you lean over to your future son and say "Billy, do well in school or you'll end up like this, a guy doing magic tricks for people in a restaurant."
There's even evidence in some of the live performances I've seen in magic DVDs.
(Buy books! They are better!) In Aaron Fisher's Search and Destroy DVD, you see one of the audience members say "You get payed to do this?" Aaron's response was "I get payed to breathe sister." Sure, it may had been in a kidding voice, but do you think she was
really kidding? Maybe. Maybe not. In one of the True Astonishment DVDs, Bro did a performance and one of the people said "WOW! This guy is good!" in a strange tone I cannot put into words. I really see that as "You did a good job entertaining us puppy." There are a few other performances, but I can't think of them right now. I'll put them up if I remember them.
Of course, that's just close-up performers in general I'm talking about. If you're a stage magician and people are paying to see a show, then I think people will accept you as someone with a genuine passion for what you do. (Also, if your name rhymes with Bavid Dlaine, then you also may be looked up to.)
Just my opinion.
-Doug