When I need to do a sleight, I try to get the spectators to look at me. Most of the time, this doesn't work. I talk to them, look them in the eyes and relax the deck but for some reason they keep burning my hands. Am I doing something wrong or are these spectators just a bit rude. Gimme tips
If you are saying that one or two audience members are burning you, maybe you are completely fine yourself.
But if every audience or most of them, burn you, most probably you:-
1) have made yourself look like a sleight-of-hand artist rather than a performer and magician. For good or for bad, first impressions about a person usually stick.
2) become tensed right when you are going to perform the sleight.
3) make it too obvious that you absolutely WANT them to look up at you and not at your hands.
If it is the first case, you have to change your intro style or your performance style. Remember, you are not 'selling-out' if you tweak your style. Remain unique in your performance, but there are some things that don't work for everyone. So my advice will be, tweak yourself.
If you get tensed up, there is nothing other than to advise you to practice., So I won't say anything more on that front. Just practice and don't show your effects too soon.
In fact, if it is the third case, then too you have to practice more on misdirection rather than the sleights themselves.
Finding the answer to any problem requires you to figure out the exact problem first.
So I guess you should get a trustworthy person as your guinea pig before performing for the real people out there. Your magic guinea pig does not need to know the secrets but you need to take their criticism positively. Better have them catching you out than someone else.
Many, like me, use their sisters
Some have their parents, some friends. Just choose someone to practice on.
Automatically your performance will improve and the audience will become susceptible to your misdirection.