Dont you dare talk to me like you can lecture me Smith. talk to your business partner and the conversations we have had see if I have not ALREADY started to make good what i am responsible for.. i get it b your hurt and you dont want others coming to my aid and support because you feel betrayed that I left and how dare you I had no choice and if you want to air it all out here then fine because you wont respond to me directly through e-mail.
Also, you among anybody else in this world know how hard i bent over backwards for customers and anyone that felt i did not come through for them when I should of.. Did i over promise? yes I did. And i take full responsibility for that but these are not excuses..
what you guys dont know is i was asked ( I was going to do it anyways because i needed to) make a public statement just letting everyone know that No Limits was a great company and they should be trusted..then they come back and use my very statement they asked me to write as an oppurtunity to slam me again...
tell ya what Smith come at me like a man and respond to me in person or e-mail. Its pretty unfair to use what you asked me to do as a way to push me down again...
Like I said, Im rooting for you Justin. I never said anything untrue or offensive. If you really intend on paying everyone back then I dont see why you would have a problem with it. I never said I dont want anyone coming to your aid and support
Im sure we could all agree that "taking responsibility" for actions goes beyond just saying "I take responsibility" Im proud of you for making that first step. I also realize that paying everyone back is not going to happen overnight.. to expect that would be unfair to you. Just like making an apology is not going to give you praise and celebration for being brave... to expect that would be unfair to those you owe.
Please do not victimize yourself over what I said. I know that you are not intentionally doing that to hold hostage the sympathy of others. Believe it or not some people do this for manipulative reasons. Here is what wikipedia has to say:
Playing the victim role ("poor me"): Manipulator portrays him- or herself as a victim of circumstance or of someone else's behavior in order to gain pity, sympathy or evoke compassion and thereby get something from another. Caring and conscientious people cannot stand to see anyone suffering and the manipulator often finds it easy to play on sympathy to get cooperation
I feel it is important to bring this to the attention of others so that they dont misconstrue your emotional responses as manipulative.
I'll say it again, Im rooting for you Justin
Best Wishes,
bSmith