Guys, before this thread gets closed allow me to interject.
First, RD voiced his opinion in a calm, rational way. Should he have said it on an open board? Not my call. In any event, RD has tried to help you in the past by giving constructive criticism but at some point nurturing must end and brutal honesty is all that remains. I can tell you that copying other performs will indeed get you no where, at least not in the magic community. Take the advice you have been given and examine yourself, maybe you SHOULD change some things. God knows I have. Hell, I have changed entire opinions on magic because I realized I was wrong. We aren't gods, we make mistakes from time to time.
And second, if you believe what you believe then you have nothing to prove, not that bragging about yourself will actually do so. But if you feel you like your magic, then run with it, but don't be surprised when you get shot down. Guess what, its life, it happens, deal with it. Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree and move on. Thats art, plain and simple.
C