Hey mate,
If you're totally new to magic, Royal Road to Card Magic or the Card College series are simply the best way to start - there is no comparison with anything else. Yes, they're books, but please understand, the majority of the best material is in books. Don't be fooled by all the ads and new material coming out. The best is in print. As far as DVDs go, Born to Perform and Easy to Master Miracles are the way to go.
For cardistry, The Encyclopedia of Playing Card Flourishes is the best way to go. Otherwise, get Xtreme Beginnerz.