Ahh, the teenage 'groups' 'labels' whatever you want to call them. I have refused to join a group, mostly because I can't stand fitting in. That's why I like Affliction, sure they are really expensive, but they don't put you in with any group. I like to be something unique.
I don't blame you for not joining a group, or choosing not to. That's kind of a good thing depending on which way you look at it, but the type of people you hang around etc. determines the group you're in. you may not see it, but some others do. labeling is for an individual from an individual. There's not much we can do in that spot, so when you say, "i refused to join a group" its like saying "i refuse to have friends"
because you're friends are also in a group whether you say it is or not.
my friends, we have to accept the fact that we're in a certain group, whether itd be geeky, cool, jock, []D[][]\/[][]D, etc. and stop denying ourselves. I don't want to know or label you guys because this IS an online forum. you guys could be the biggest playas ive ever seen.