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waynehouchin

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Greetings & Happy New Year!

Eventually, each & every one of us will make a decision during a performance that will affect the rest of our career...

I was 16 years old when I booked my first theater show. It was at The Blue Room Theater in downtown chico. To promote the show I set up a massive publicity stunt: A straitjacket escape that took place while hanging 50 feet in the air... in front of hundreds of people. The stunt & my following theater engagement were a huge success. I even gained some national press for the escape.

About a week after my run at the Blue Room had ended I received a call from the Butte County Sheriff's office. They were holding a huge fundraiser at the fairgrounds - it was a massive dinner & magic show; there was well over 800 people who would be in attendance. The Sheriffs office was bringing in a few magicians from out of town: Doug Malloy & Charles & Bobby Peters. They wanted me to be a part of the show & to provide the finale for the evening. Coming off of the success of my strait-jacket escape & theater show, I was confident to say the least... OK I was a little cocky. I challenged the Butte County Sherif to an escape. I challenged him to lock me up on stage using his own cuffs & equipment... as many pairs of cuffs as he dared - & he accepted.

At the time, I was obsessed with Houdini & I took the challenge very seriously. I had about a month to prepare - I had several pairs of police issue handcuffs. I would have myself handcuffed in the most insanely awkward positions & I would FORCE myself to escape via manipulating a key that I had hidden in the lining of my boxers. This certainly wasn't easy & I learned a lot about what my limits were. During the course of my preparations I ordered a very cool gimmicked padlock that opens without a key & at the last minute I decided that I would bring the padlock & a length of chain for the Sheriff (in addition to the restraints that he was planning on using).

The performance day came fast & I was confident. The fairgrounds auditorium was packed & the show began. Doug was the MC for the evening - he performed for a while & then introduced Charles & Bobbi Peters. They performed their act & then I was introduced for the first part of my set. I commanded the stage as I performed a 15 minute excerpt from my theater show - it went over fantastic. What a show!

Doug was up again for a while & again Charles & Bobbi... Eventually the time came for the finale. I walked up to the microphone & again greeted the audience. I explained the challenge & then introduced the Butte County Sheriff & 2 of his deputies. They came out onstage carrying various handcuffs, leg-cuffs & other restraints. The escape began: I took off my shirt & was then thoroughly searched by the Sheriff... He didn't find any of the 5 keys that I had hidden on my person. I had cleared the first hurdle.

Next the restraints. The Sheriff asked me to sit on my knees. Him & his deputies cuffed my hands with 2 pairs of cuffs behind my back. Two pairs of leg-cuffs were then placed on my ankles & a third pair was used to lock my hands to my feet. I was essentially hog tied. Next I instructed the Sheriff to take a length of heavy chain & a Masterlock (my gimmicked padlock) & to use it any way he wished. The chain was wrapped around me & locked... I think they also used some Duct Tape :)

A small enclosure made out of PVC pipe & cloth was then lowered over me & the escape began. I got to one of my keys right away & began working to open the cuffs. It wasn't easy & after a few minutes I realized that my wrists were bleeding. I kept going & slowly - inch by inch - I gained access to the pair of cuffs that were keeping my ankles locked to my wrists.

I dropped the key... I couldn't reach it.

I had to start over - fortunately I had planned for this. I had another key hidden in my mouth. I twisted my body so that I could drop the key from my mouth into my hands. It worked - I was back on track. I got the part of the first pair of cuffs unlocked - I was no longer fully hog-tied. I was then able to remove one of the cuffs around my hands & another set from around my ankles. I was close to success but my chain & gimmicked padlock were in the way & preventing me from reaching the final cuffs. I struggled - it was a gimmicked padlock... all I need to do was to turn the cylindar with my fingernail...

I couldn't reach it.

I heard Doung Malloy walk up to the enclosure & ask if I was OK... "Yes, just give me another minute." 5 minutes passed. My wrists were bleeding & I had lost all feeling in my right hand. My arm had also gone numb. Doug came back & we had to call it. The enclosure was lifted & there I stood in the spotlight in front of a thousand people. Cuffed & broken. Blood flowing down my wrists.

I had managed to get to a standing position by the end, but I was not free - not by any stretch of the imagination. I stood there & watched as they audience cheered. Perhaps because they felt sorry - perhaps because I was the local "hometown hero."

The Sheriff walked over & unlocked the rest of the cuffs. The show was over. I stood there in the middle of the stage & had to endure the handful of people who came over to congratulate me anyway.

Nothing that I could ever write can describe the feeling of sheer failure in front of a thousand people. It was humiliating. What's worse is that if I had stuck to my original plans - the escape would have been made. At the last minute I threw in a gimmicked padlock that I hadn't practiced with & that was my downfall.

This was a life changing performance for me. I learned a lot about preparation, about ego, & about performance... but the most important thing that I learned was what it felt like to completely fail in front of an audience. The fear of failure is what keeps us from succeeding at much in our lives. I learned how it felt to fail & instead of hanging my head & feeling sorry for myself - I became determined to use what I had learned to my advantage.

The way I approach stunts & performances has forever been changed by that event. The next year I went on to successfully complete a similar escape - I had incorporated what I had learned from my earlier failure - I was prepared for EVERYTHING. Without the experience of failing in such a huge way, I wouldn't be the performer that I am today. The milestones that happen within our lives - both the successes & the failures - are key to making us who we are... however, ultimately it is up to YOU how these milestones will affect you.

My Dad taught me something when I was younger: When you have a goal that you are reaching toward, pay close attention to the things that you do that get you closer to your goal & the things you do that get you further from your goal. If you CONTINUE to do the things that get you closer & STOP doing the things that get you further - eventually you WILL reach your goal. It may take some time & it won't always be easy, but it will come.

That was a performance that changed my life. I want to hear about yours. It doesn't have to be a performance, it could be an unrelated event, but what moments in your life have changed you as a performer? What did you learn & how did you learn it? I look forward to reading your replies.
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Wonderful story, AND you were only 16! Wow.

Mine didn't happen that long ago. It was this past June, I went for my regular check up at the doctor but this time it wasn't the same. I told him I wasn't feeling as great as usual and I explained my symptoms. He sent me immediately for blood tests and the next day when I was driving to the store I got a phone call from the doctor. My mom was in the seat next to me so I handed her the phone because I can't drive while talking on the phone. He told her that we should go to the emergency room A.S.A.P. because I have Type 1 Diabetes. When my mom told me the news I pulled the car over and started balling my eyes out. It felt as if I was punched in the chest. It was the worst news of my life to date.

Now, as I look back, I see that it just made me stronger and more confident. Being able to stick a needle in yourself 4+ times a day really toughens you as a person. I noticed that not only did my social life get better, but my magic was taken to a new level. I was more confident in myself and I was more at ease when performing for strangers.

It was and still is a true learning experience.

Mitchell
 
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For me, I don't have just one life changing performance. Every performance is life changing, whether it's for a magician or layman. If I mess up on a little sleight, then I can experiment on how to make it foolproof. I don't think that one performance will change your life, every performance will change your life.
 
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For me, I don't have just one life changing performance. Every performance is life changing, whether it's for a magician or layman. If I mess up on a little sleight, then I can experiment on how to make it foolproof. I don't think that one performance will change your life, every performance will change your life.

yea, same here, every time i do a trick for somebody i think about what i did good or bad and try to improve it for it to be perfect.
 
My story of great failure for me did not involve magic. I have been a Martial artists for almost twenty years now. My training has taking me beyond all my limits in everything I do. But some of my worst memories occurred during my training. And yes, I'm that old I'm 30 now I have been fighting since I was 10. I was 16 and I was in State championships and I qualified and moved to the Nationals. From their I won Gold and was entered into the Junior olympics. Now the level of competiton in the olympics can be very stressful. I trained 12-16 hours a day every Saturday and Sunday and 4-5 hours a day 5 days a week after school. I did local press interviews and alot was riding on my shoulders. It seemed like everytime I turned around people were coming up to me and saying your gonna make our town proud son. We'll that was just the beginning. After blood, sweat, and tears I was ready for the competition. So I showed up at the convention center and I was intimidated all these guys I was to fight where huge they had me by atleast 6-8 inches and their reach was about the same. I fought and won 13 fights that day until the final challenge came. The guy I was to fight was the same height and build except he was from Oklahoma and he was missing his top front teeth. I remember him smiling at me before the fight began. Right from the start he was taking cheap shots and fighting dirty. I knew I couldn't get mad or I would be fighting his fight and he would have me mentally. But my plan failed and I let my temper get the best of me and I lost the fight. Eight months of training and I walked with a silver, while to some that may seem great but to me I failed myself and that lesson I carry with me till this very day. I beat myself mentally and I built my own limits now I feel that way when I perform. I have performed for several hundred people at a time and my nerves are steady when I get out there now. You have to go all out for it may be your last chance. Anyways I thats my story hoped you enjoyed it. Oh, by the way I'm not old just experienced. lol:D
 
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Thank you for sharing that story Wayne.

My story is a little different. When I started this art we all love, my best friend Chris M. was my 'mirror' or 'test audience'. I practiced everything on him and he loved it! He sometimes gave me tips or ideas that I hadn't thought of to improve the effect, and he was not a magician at all. He was a I.T computer specialist. I owe a lot to him though. He is the one who pushed me to perform for strangers, he broke me out of my shell, he is the one who never let me give up.

I perform a large variety of magic from cards, coins, mentalism, anything you or Danny produce, etc.

About 2 years ago I fell 'in love' with Mentalism. I practiced and practiced and then performed a show for 150 people and it was AMAZING. Everything was awesome. The show was 75 minutes long and everyone's jaws dropped after every demonistration. I finished with a blindfolded roulette routine with a butterfly knife. It killed!

I have been planning an even larger show that will play for 500 people this April at one of our local Theaters. I live in Texas. This has been in the making since early June of 2007.

I flew to a family members wedding in Denver in July and ended up performing for all the guests at the reception. I did some walk around with a few items I had and it went VERY well. I even pulled off 'Refraction' (Wine Glass Bend) for the Bride and Groom and everyone went NUTS! The night could not have gone any better! I was feeling GREAT!

Then that evening, I was awaken by my cell phone at 3am. My best friends mother called me in tears. I could bearly understand her. Then suddenly, the clear words she spoke pierced me with something you can not prepare for. My best friend Chris was in a fatal car accident. It was raining that evening and he lost control of his truck, flipping it 6 times. He was ejected from the vehicle during the flips and landed head first on the concrete.

I was overwelmed with feelings of anger, sadness, tragedy, and finally fear. After that I began to think about his family. I was there for them and our friends. Then, about a week later, I became selfish and angry again. I started thinking about what I was going to do? Chris was my best friend and the one who pushed me perform. He was the one I relied on to practice, test, discuss. What was I going to do now?

I realized how selfish I was. I thought about what Chris would say to me if he was still here. He would say, "Dude, just go out there and do your $h&#!" It made me smile because I know that is what he would say. I know now that I have the tools to become a great performer. If I didn't then my shows would not have been as successful as they were and people would not treat me as they do when they ask me to "show them something"

Chris helped me become who I am today by giving me confidence and for that I thank him. Learning to keep my confidence without his help was my biggest hurdle. That's my story, I apologize for the length of it, but I felt I needed to share it. Chris died at the age of 23.
 
Thank you for sharing that story Wayne.

My story is a little different. When I started this art we all love, my best friend Chris M. was my 'mirror' or 'test audience'. I practiced everything on him and he loved it! He sometimes gave me tips or ideas that I hadn't thought of to improve the effect, and he was not a magician at all. He was a I.T computer specialist. I owe a lot to him though. He is the one who pushed me to perform for strangers, he broke me out of my shell, he is the one who never let me give up.

I perform a large variety of magic from cards, coins, mentalism, anything you or Danny produce, etc.

About 2 years ago I fell 'in love' with Mentalism. I practiced and practiced and then performed a show for 150 people and it was AMAZING. Everything was awesome. The show was 75 minutes long and everyone's jaws dropped after every demonistration. I finished with a blindfolded roulette routine with a butterfly knife. It killed!

I have been planning an even larger show that will play for 500 people this April at one of our local Theaters. I live in Texas. This has been in the making since early June of 2007.

I flew to a family members wedding in Denver in July and ended up performing for all the guests at the reception. I did some walk around with a few items I had and it went VERY well. I even pulled off 'Refraction' (Wine Glass Bend) for the Bride and Groom and everyone went NUTS! The night could not have gone any better! I was feeling GREAT!

Then that evening, I was awaken by my cell phone at 3am. My best friends mother called me in tears. I could bearly understand her. Then suddenly, the clear words she spoke pierced me with something you can not prepare for. My best friend Chris was in a fatal car accident. It was raining that evening and he lost control of his truck, flipping it 6 times. He was ejected from the vehicle during the flips and landed head first on the concrete.

I was overwelmed with feelings of anger, sadness, tragedy, and finally fear. After that I began to think about his family. I was there for them and our friends. Then, about a week later, I became selfish and angry again. I started thinking about what I was going to do? Chris was my best friend and the one who pushed me perform. He was the one I relied on to practice, test, discuss. What was I going to do now?

I realized how selfish I was. I thought about what Chris would say to me if he was still here. He would say, "Dude, just go out there and do your $h&#!" It made me smile because I know that is what he would say. I know now that I have the tools to become a great performer. If I didn't then my shows would not have been as successful as they were and people would not treat me as they do when they ask me to "show them something"

Chris helped me become who I am today by giving me confidence and for that I thank him. Learning to keep my confidence without his help was my biggest hurdle. That's my story, I apologize for the length of it, but I felt I needed to share it. Chris died at the age of 23.

Sorry to hear that Gerald I have lost my best friend as well and its hard. We can only learn from it.

Peace,

Shane
 
My experience was waay back several years ago. It was when I was first getting into magic. I was in middle school then, and I decided to pull 3 card monte for a friend.

I failed. Miserably. It actually should have worked fine, but he kept catching all my moves and even though I attempted to deny him, I knew he was right.

This changed my whole course of magic because when I got off that bus, I knew I hadn't given it my best shot. I had done it in a crowded environment because I hadn't practiced or prepared, and I had to prepare what I could in the appropriate environment. It was rushed and there was virtually no patter. I was somewhat greedy; I just wanted him to appreciate my magic, even if it was in the elementary stage.

Thanks for the story and topic WH, as well as thanks for everybody else who's shared their stories. :)
 
Nov 28, 2007
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Well this isn't a magic performance story, but since my big brother joined Primerica, he goes to training about 2 or 3 times a week. And in training they teach him how to have mental toughness. He loved it and decided to teach me some stuff as well. I begin listening to him, reading books about mental toughness that he suggested. Those books were all from people who were successful, making millions and millions a year. I wanted to be like them, so i kept listening to my brother and putting my knowledge into action. I found that all the books were the same, the same concept almost everytime i read a success book. So i began to believe in what the books said, and my brother because i wanted to be a success. I will not settle for anything lower than success and being the best. That's how my live has changed. I've began to have a winning mind. I began to block out all the people who said, "what are the chances of you becoming and magician and being rich?" And I replied, "oh I WILL become a magician and become rich, and help out all those in need with the money that i WILL have." They just shut up. I began to visualize so much of what i wanted, I can feel it becoming real inside me. I can feel so much change, and the excitement of success flowing through me. My life will not be an apology, it will be a statement.
 
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For me...I have a story of epic failing (Called that because its hilarious)


EPic Fail: I was at walmart with my cards./ and the clerk asked me to do a trick (In the electronics) so, I decided, sure, why not. I had him select a card, and then take the deck and throw it in the air (I had already done a secret move....) then I hit the deck and produced his card!...but, I hit the deck too hard and then cards went EVERYWHERE!!! it basically exploded! it was hilarious!
 
My story takes place just last year. About nine months actually. I had been doing magic for four years prior and was at a point where i was picking things up extremely quick. Therefore i was becoming somewhat cocky with myself.

Anyway i signed up myself and a friend for a talent show. We tried out doing close up magic and we did so good that they decided to give us triple the time of all the other acts, and to make us the finale of the show.

Again i was cocky, and did not realize how much work it would be.

Months passed and we practiced. We were set to do 2 close up tricks, 1 of which my friend would do a small card trick on a projector, and i would do another card trick to a member in the audience, then we were going to do a metamorphasis that was different from others. We were not going to use gimmick locks, and the box was going to be next to the change, not under it. I wanted to be handcuffed with hands, and feet and placed in the box.

Months passed, and we practiced and the show began. What happens next had nothing to do with our ability to perform the effects, but rather the preparation and mind set going into it. Remember i went in cocky and i felt like i could do anything on stage in magic.

The show came and the projectors went out and we not working. So now we are on stage with broken projectors. Which ruins the close up tricks. The thing that i feel changed me is that i feel i should have been ready for that in case it happened, with a Plan B... But i wasn't. To be, nothing could go wrong. And before the show i once heard a magician say "If anything, anything, and i mean anything, even if you cant control it, goes wrong during your show... its always your fault." So i felt... I should have been prepared in case something like that were to happen. And i should have been, but i was to cocky to do so.

However, because the projectors went out, i began to stall, which i did well. I decided to go on with my close up trick but for some reason, my mind went off and i did it with an angle that hardly anyone could see. It WAS A DISASTER even though the trick was performed great. Then started the metamorphosis and someone accidentally backstage messed up something i had set up prior to the performance. They accidentally dropped a pin i had near the box when they were moving my props. So i go in the box, and now i cant get out of the cuffs because i have no pin. Im stuck there for over a minute. Forcing my hand through the cuff because i know that if i can at least get one hand out i can go in my pocket and get the other spare pin i had. My hand felt like it was going to rip off but long story short, i got one hand out thank god and got to do the change, but it did not look good because it took SOOO long to take place.

But what it taught me was... even if you yourself are ready to perform... your still not ready. You have to make sure you have back ups, your other performers are ready, and anyone helping you is ready. Because truly, if something goes wrong, even if someone messed it up... its your fault because you could have practiced more, thought of a back up, double checked things,...etc

Thanks for reading. Any comments would be great, and this is a link to part of the show someone i don't even know took and put on you tube lol.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=C8Y3ndXj5ck
 
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For me, the only time that I've had an epic failure was when I first started learning magic.

I, like many other newbies at the time, tried to perform a plethora of effects that I knew that I couldn't pull off.

Let's just say that there was some accidental exposure going on due to my immature way of thinking about magic when I was younger.

Shane K.
 

waynehouchin

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Guys - I am very impressed with your stories - keep them coming!

A massive storm rolled through California over the weekend - Dana & I have been without power & internet for the last few days, so I'm going to keep this thread open for a few days longer. I'll talk to you soon!
 
Nov 30, 2007
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Wow, great find.

My experience isn't much, but one that most people go through. I'd learnt an effect and was so excited by it I decided to perform it, at school, the very next day. I'd got quite big crowd (about 15-20 people), and every single person in the crowd was staring at my hands so hard, I could feel them burning. No matter how hard I tried, they saw every move.

Again, not much, but still something.
 
Sep 12, 2007
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I feel for you man..

This has happened to me many times. You flash something, like a double lift or something. Then the audience goes "Ahhhh, i was what you did" or "Oh, why do you have two cards?" or something like that. I find that really annoying, and somethimes temper can rise, and you may eventually do that thing in David Stone RSOM when you bite out the guys tounge.

Anyone got tips to do in this situation. PM me or post a repliy.
 
I feel for you man..

This has happened to me many times. You flash something, like a double lift or something. Then the audience goes "Ahhhh, i was what you did" or "Oh, why do you have two cards?" or something like that. I find that really annoying, and somethimes temper can rise, and you may eventually do that thing in David Stone RSOM when you bite out the guys tounge.

Anyone got tips to do in this situation. PM me or post a repliy.

What I do when this situation arrives I repeat back what they said like " Oh two cards huh? That's what you saw well thats interesting we'll try it again watch this,...hold the card assuring there's just one and place it sticking out of the deck anywhere you want", and then do a half pass and it shuts them up usually and most of the time they think your better for it. Try it and let them play their games and well play ours you will conquer when its over. Usually I'll get a reaction like" Oh I hate you!", in a funny way of course and since you didn't lose your temper they forget you even screwed up in the first place or they think it was part of the trick. It works for me.
 
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