Steer is right on with his assessment. RK is going to come up with an effect and she'll go to prom because they've been going out a year and he's going to feel on top of the world....till she breaks up with him within the next year or so. Why? Because this is an obvious case where a guy values the girl far more than she values him.
Most guys today feel they have to constantly "earn" the girl, never taking into consideration what makes women truly attracted to men.
RK, if you really want to make your girl feel like she's with someone special, you would be far better off telling her that just because you've been dating a year don't think that you'll automatically take her to prom and that she has to wine and dine you first. Then tell her she better look really hot for you. Obviously it is done with sarcasm, confidence, and a bit of arrogance and "assholishness" in there....but that's what makes women feel gut level attraction.
All this picnic, note, and corny magic stuff will simply make her feel like she's not with a real guy....she'll break up with you and you won't know what hit you. You'll be the kind of guy that says, "But I gave her the world....what happened?" You don't know how women tick....you think you do, but trust me...you don't. But you'll find out for yourself and when it happens I want you to remember what I said in this post.
Most guys today feel they have to constantly "earn" the girl, never taking into consideration what makes women truly attracted to men.
RK, if you really want to make your girl feel like she's with someone special, you would be far better off telling her that just because you've been dating a year don't think that you'll automatically take her to prom and that she has to wine and dine you first. Then tell her she better look really hot for you. Obviously it is done with sarcasm, confidence, and a bit of arrogance and "assholishness" in there....but that's what makes women feel gut level attraction.
All this picnic, note, and corny magic stuff will simply make her feel like she's not with a real guy....she'll break up with you and you won't know what hit you. You'll be the kind of guy that says, "But I gave her the world....what happened?" You don't know how women tick....you think you do, but trust me...you don't. But you'll find out for yourself and when it happens I want you to remember what I said in this post.