This is why conversation these days is a lost art. Internet forums try to apply rules that have nothing to do with real life. If we were all sitting around a cafe or bar and a guy asked this question, the response he would get would be very similar to those given here. If this person said, "Hey, I just want to know a trick idea....didn't ask you guys for your other thoughts even though they are based on reality"....we would all get up and not associate with that guy.
tokyoSW had the best analogy here and the advice RK has gotten is very good and very real. If he chooses not to follow it that's fine, but it doesn't mean others can't take what we're saying and actually measure it against their real life...because if they did they would know how much it applies.
tokyoSW: For my blunt, over-exaggerated analogy. It is a little bit like someone coming on and making a post that says, "I am planning to jump off something really high to end my misery. Should I jump off a cliff, or bridge, or... any other ideas?" And instead of people saying, "OH!! a Bridge would be best!" you got, "hmm, maybe you shouldn't jump off anything? There are other ways to solve your misery, perhaps counseling?" In this situation, the initial idea itself was not the best place to start. Many of us think it is the same with your original post/ question.
