Well...its not really. Anyone who can get the bow-to-stern control from that post must have a fairly impressive mind if you ask me!
In answer to the original post, its all about lightness of touch; just keep on working on it, remember to stay light and relaxed as you handle the cards and eventually it'll just...click.
Sorry there's nothing more specific to say, but these things really are a knack.
Cheers,
David.