If you have been ignored before, you are currently lacking what you need to achieve this goal.
If you were charismatic enough to manage something like this, you wouldn't be here asking people like this (Most people here WISH they could make something like this happen.) Since you are asking people here, most of whom I am sure have never had a serious relationship, you obviously lack what it takes.
Not trying to burn you, but you are looking for personality advice in a place where there is none.
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When I read that I went "DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN!" lol.
Wangruo-Around here anything associating magic and girls you'd like to attract seems to be really stigmatized. You can probably tell by how few actual answers to your question you've received compared to posts that either challenge the validity of your question or just flame you outright. I think its kind of funny because we seem to have no problem doing magic for anyone else in the world but when it comes to girls we're attracted to all the sudden its dirty and manipulative. If you really think about it, part of the reason all of us do magic or got into it, whether we are consciously aware of it or not, is because people are typically so much nicer to us afterward.
At any rate here I am harping about people not answering your question and in doing so I'm not answering it either. Whoops.
An important detail to me with doing magic is if the effect and performance is congruent with your personality. If you aren't the type of person that can casually ask a girl for a kiss on the cheek
without doing magic then that is probably why its not working out with the magic. Its kind of a catch 22 in that respect. You can literally achieve anything as long as you can successfully bring a spectator into your reality and you can keep the effects relevant to that reality.
tl;dr: If you need magic to get a girl, its really not going to work for you.
even more simplified: SWAGGER UP!