Big Problem

[greg]

Hey guys last week I was on the street doing some magic and i did magic to this girl about 13 to 14 years old and she asked me for my business card and gave to her than two days later she call me and I went to her house to do a mini show for her and her parents but now the girl wants to be my girlfriend and her mom is all my boy on me and I don't know what to do please help.

ps:keep in mind that her dad have lots of contacts that can help me with my magic carrier and that i have a girlfriend.

 

[Sean_Raf]

Wow... Umm. Lucky guy

If you already have a girlfriend, then I think you need to explain the situation heh. Going out with her because her dad has contacts would be unfair on everyone involved.

Use your head.

- Sean

 

[greg]

Wow... Umm. Lucky guy

If you already have a girlfriend, then I think you need to explain the situation heh. Going out with her because her dad has contacts would be unfair on everyone involved.

Use your head.

- Sean

To freak out to think....she may call or come to my house anytime soon so please helpppp

 

[Jeremy C.]

Tell her you already have a girlfriend.

p.s. - Is she hot?

 

[greg]

Tell her you already have a girlfriend.

p.s. - Is she hot?

hell yeah shes hot did i mention that her dad can get me on tv commercials and in some tv shows plus hes the best friend of some guy who owns a casino in La's Vegas.

 

[Jeremy C.]

Psh. Just tell her that there's another hot magician in NY, and that she can be his girlfriend.

 

[greg]

Psh. Just tell her that there's another hot magician in NY, and that she can be his girlfriend.

yeah right..

 

[Ajatustenlukija]

Maybe you should date her father instead. Seriously you shouldn't date a girl just because her father has some connections.

 

[Jeremy C.]

Or you can say - I dont want to go out with you. I want to marry you.

But seriously dude, do what you think is right.

 

[lachomagician]

Hey guys last week I was on the street doing some magic and i did magic to this girl about 13 to 14 years old and she asked me for my business card and gave to her than two days later she call me and I went to her house to do a mini show for her and her parents but now the girl wants to be my girlfriend and her mom is all my boy on me and I don't know what to do please help.

ps:keep in mind that her dad have lots of contacts that can help me with my magic carrier and that i have a girlfriend.

maybe this is none of my business, but how old are you?

 

[JoeCarr]

if shes hotter than your girlfriend now, go get her... lol but only go out with her if you want to, not for her dad....

 

[Deechristopher]

Haha - I'm guessing about 13-14 from the age of the girl in question! ...At least I'm hoping so...

If you're considering leaving your current girlfriend to go out with this new girl maybe you shouldn't be with your current girlfriend either way? Think a little about that.

Also, even if you don't go out with this guys daughter, there's nothing stopping you from being friends and if her dad is genuinely interested in putting you in front of people I'm sure you could sort something out either way!

D.

 

[greg]

I got a aureka moment I'm going to talk to my girl and see if i can date the other girl at the same time..yayyyy

and think about it i get publicity and the girl gets me then when the time comes i broke with the girl and keep my girlfriend.

and using people that's part of life......

 

[Deechristopher]

Isn't it 'Eureka?'

Either way, It's good that you'd speak to your GF about it all, but the disregard for the new girl's feelings isn't too good an idea - It's good that your concerned about moving forward, but there's plenty of ways to do so without hurting people.

D.

 

[greg]

Isn't it 'Eureka?'

Either way, It's good that you'd speak to your GF about it all, but the disregard for the new girl's feelings isn't too good an idea - It's good that your concerned about moving forward, but there's plenty of ways to do so without hurting people.

D.

Hurting people is part of life...I don't like to hurt people fellings but...

my plan
1. get on the good side of her dad and mom
2.Make her broke out with me.
3.be sure to be friends with the girl

 

[Deechristopher]

Your right, sometimes you do have to hurt people - but you should try and consider other options first.

I don't know the entire context, just what you wrote here. I'm sure you'll make the right decisions, but if not you can learn from the mistakes!

Good luck in what ever you decide to do - Make sure you let everyone know if you do get any bigger gigs!

D.

 

[Jack]

Well first of all she's 14 how old are you?
Second, if you don't tell her you have a girlfriend and you date them both you will get caught eventually and you will lose both girls and any connections that you might get from the one girl's father.
Third, don't date her just for what her dad can get you. You can still make just as many connections if you tell her the truth and become a good friend.

That's my advise and i've been in a lot of relationships and a lot of similar situations.

Cheers! and good luck!

 

[dejavu05]

All you have to do is say you want to be friends with her if you like her. But don't be friends with her just because of the dad. If you actually like her as a friend then just be friends.

 

[greg]

Well first of all she's 14 how old are you?
Second, if you don't tell her you have a girlfriend and you date them both you will get caught eventually and you will lose both girls and any connections that you might get from the one girl's father.
Third, don't date her just for what her dad can get you. You can still make just as many connections if you tell her the truth and become a good friend.

That's my advise and i've been in a lot of relationships and a lot of similar situations.

Cheers! and good luck!

I'm 15 and my real gf is going to know if she agrees with the plan than that's my choice.

PS:To tell you the true that girl is to hot to be only friends with.


and think about it if i make her broke out with me than there no hurt feelings but I'm going to have fun with that girl for some time that's for sure.

ps:my girl is even hotter

 

[Danomite]

What could be the problem? If you're good at what you do, I'm sure the father, who apparently has all these great connections will connect you to one of them. If you're no good, dating his 12 year old daughter won't influence him at all.

This really doesn't seem to be a problem or issue relating to magic, and I can't believe you don't have anyone around you to talk about this to. The whole things is kind of silly, if you ask me.