I disagree. Let me rephrase that I greatly disagree. I'll even go so far as to put that into bold text. I greatly disagree.
We are programed as a society to knee jerk the "no" answer to anything we view as an intrusion without even considering if it is something that would be good for us.
That's why in sales, the first rule you are taught is to ask open ended questions. Questions that the mark can't answer with just "no."
I agree, don't offer them the option. You are hired to entertain, and entertain you must! If you want to keep your job that is. Take for example my opening line:
"Hi I'm Draven, I've been sent to your table curtasy of the management to entertain you. Here, select a card."
No where in that did I ask them If I COULD entertain. I just assumed they wanted to see it. In sales that's an assumptive close. And you know what... 99.9% of the people I approach will say "OK!" and engage me.
You objection is going to apply to maybe 3% of the overal workers experience. Hardly enough to justify not doing it.
Thats more or less what i wanted to hear.
He, for me at least, didn't really phrase it well. Like you said you are there to perform you have been hired to entertain and your opening statement seemed a bit more inviting atleast.
I admit i should have probably rephrased some of the things i said but im sure you have no problem gaining an enthusiastic ok or yes.
But you have to admit some people just arent in the mood to see magic thats all i was really trying to say. You can't ,well, shouldnt force it on someone who doesnt want to see it is all.
Tom