The Trilogy isn't definately not something to start with. If you want to flourish, I'd begin with Extreme Beginners, then get The System and if you still want to flourish after those two, then move onto the Trilogy. As for the magic; Don't even think about it! If you're new, the magic is too advanced. Their handlings will be way easier once you're more experienced in general. They use flourishy handlings on somewhat simple tricks to make spectacular performances, but it wont make a lick of difference if you don't have the basics.