and theres nothing wrong with having a character either, its a personal choice.
See, I agree with both of you... I myself be myself, funny and nice... But I also exaggerate my outfit when I perform parties...(See above post from me if you care or want to know what I wear).. But I don't walk around school with dress clothes and black nails and a hot topic wrist band... No, its my character and I'm comftorble with it. But its not like a 180 degree twist... I am not a quarterback at school and then put paint my nails and put makeup on at night... What I wear during the day is near what I wear when I perform... Anyway all I'm trying to say is, yes its ok to be your self and its ok to have a character... But its also ok to have both.. Like me.
Hope all this helps,
-SM