First of all, thanks for watching and taking your time to reply it means a lot.
Im not going to justify my actions, because I know I messed up, I'll try to build some rapport next time, BTW, I was wondering, is there a way to connect with the spectator during the 2CM trick? I mean the patter used doesn't reallly leaves room to connect with them, any suggestions would be great.
I'l practice the coming weeks, thinking of something to actually improve the things that you have told me thanks again.
Why do you want to connect to an audience just on a specific part of a procedure, and not the thing as a whole?
First of all, the thing you must strive to work on is to get the commited to your performance and the things you do. Like Steerpike asks, you can do magic, but why should they care? Seriously, if you wish to improve, ask yourself that question, over and over and over and over again. Every time you even think of performing any magic, be sure to ask yourself that question. Why? Because it is a great shoulder to stand on, and the first step to really improving.
For myself, when i am performing the 2CM, i make the effect really easy to follow. Nothing epic, nothing illogical, nothing "magical", just a normal everyday thing. That is why i dont use the "stabby" action.
But back on topic. Commitment. You have to get them commited to you, and your performance - which means your effect is included within this perimeter. So then how do you get them commited? Not by putting a story behind the effect you are doing, or turning it into something magical, or whatever it is that you do. Commitment means making them interested in the effect. Only this way will you be able to put a dent in their barriers, struck a chord in their core -in other words create a powerful impact for them.
You won't be able to do that if you're performing a "trick".
So then how do you make them interested in the effect? You have to ask yourself what is it that makes the spectator intersted first? Is it the cards? Your skill? Or their emotions?
There you find the key!
So how do you use it? First, you have to be interesting yourself, to interest the interested. Now this all links back to the heavy discussion topics on style, performance, approach, presentation, etc etc. And now Dee has kindly started writing up entries on PaperCrane's site about creating good, solid presentation. You ought to check out.
Now if you're still following me RD, lemme recommend you to an effect called "RPS Entity". A very good effect. Nothing to do with cards (or at least not the ones we drool over unhinderedly). It may be a small effect, nothing flashy, but it has great impact. Why? Well....don't tell me you don't like rock paper sissors? Now think about this in terms of your 2CM. Actually, do this for all your effects.
You need to start your soul searching journey man. Really think about what is it that you do. Do you want to perform miracles? Do you want your magic to mean something to people? Do you want memorable experiences for your spectators? Books like Strong Magic will help a great deal. Only thing i can say is, look deep down inside you, and find that interesting, unique you, and use it. Be sure to look at Dee's blog entries.
PS - Thanks Faust, i didn't see your reply to the performance i did. I will be sure to keep that in mind for next time.