Get used to disappointment then.
Hmmm I might be wrong but is that you trying to indicate that me (whom you never met or seen at least as far as I am aware) probably sucks?? Even If that would be true (maybe it is!) that would have been just a lucky guess by you! And we shouldnt do wild inappropriate guesses about each other!
And regarding your other statements, If I am desperate right now its not because of this thread. And I was never justifying bad performances. Cards doesnt equal bad performances and no-cards doesnt equal good performance, but I am sure we agree on that point.
And what I am on about, I just think that a deck of cards alongside a couple of coins are probably the most effective props that you can carry around with you when measured by the possibilities they offer compared to the space they take up in your pockets. Thats it. Still, nobody forces you to follow my recommendations.